As It Is or As I Am – the Art of Becoming

A journey … towards … being

Endings – saying goodbye to a client

Last Thursday evening saw one of the clients I’ve been seeing for her final visit – our 15th session.  We had discussed the previous week that this would be her last session. Her choice, which we both felt comfortable with. There was a lot of enthusiasm from her regrading going out on her own.  Some nervousness, but overall a feeling of the time being right.  It was a sense of we had travelled as far together as she felt was needed.  Time to venture on her own.

I expected to feel, well, not sure what I expected … there is a kind of satisfied, contented feeling, that she feels strong enough to continue her life journey without me. Is that not what counselling is about – being with a client as they find themselves, develop an awareness of themselves, being more themselves, being able to be as they want , wish and desire to be?


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